Yes I know…..you want to be here…..I don’t blame you…..You want to see all of these lovely images and I can understand that…..but here is the thing…..you are just not old enough yet. So I ask you, please please pretty please, if you are under 18, please un-follow this blog……. but the day you turn 18, I hope that you will return and I will welcome you with open arms! :):):) Thanks yall!
Belle:)
Ditto! :-)
I can’t make you stop following me if you’re under 18. But if you are, I would hope you will pay me enough respect to voluntarily stop until you turn 18. And then I hope you come back for more fun.
(Source: pinktrickle)
I love this so much
I wish a woman would keep her glasses on for me.
(Source: candywonderss)
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If every woman treated her man like this the world would be a happier place!
I love the exchange at the end…. Sex is funny. It’s good when we can laugh at it, and don’t have to be so serious all the time.
Just try to break me.: For new dominant's.
- Do not touch what is not yours. This goes for people and for toys.
- No one owes you their submission.
- Trust is earned, not freely given.
- Kinky sex and BDSM are not mutually exclusive.
- A lot of responsibility comes with dominance.
- Educate yourself. Learn how to do those things you enjoy. If you’re going to top someone, know what the fuck you are doing. Serious harm can be caused by a bad tie in rope play (nerve damage!), same goes for several other types of play.
- Just because she is submissive, does not make her yours.
- Respect boundaries, both physical and otherwise.
- Just because she is a submissive, does not mean she is required to call you Sir, Daddy, or Master.
- Dominant is a noun. Dominate is a verb. Educate yourself on the difference between the two.
- Just because she posts nude/semi-nude photos does not mean that you have the right to degrade her, or try to proposition her for sex.
- If you are not her Daddy, Sir, or Master - do not refer to yourself as such. It’s fucking creepy.
- 50 Shades of Grey is not realistic.
- You do not have to play with her or dominate her just because she is submissive.
- Being new isn’t something to be ashamed of. Be honest about your skills, experience, and interests. Finding yourself a mentor is a very good idea.
- Calling random women slut, whore, and the like is not appropriate (unless she has consented to it).
- No means no.
- Never make anyone feel ashamed for using their safe word.
- Don’t try to force someone into something. Domination does not equal to manipulation. If you two are playing for the first time, and she doesn’t want to be fully restrained? Don’t try to talk her into it. Respect that limit. Respect builds trust.
- Respect and trust are earned, not freely given.
- It is incredibly disrespectful to proposition an owned submissive without the consent of her Dom. Trying to sway her to leave him for you will likely not only piss her off, but will send the wrath of a protective Dom your way.
- Just because someone is poly/open does not mean they want to fuck you.
- BDSM cannot save you. It can be a cathartic release, but it cannot save or fix you.
- Do not top someone while intoxicated, or out of anger. That crosses over into abuse and even rape.
There is so much more to learn, but these are the basics. Educate yourself. If you’re going to take on that type of responsibility, don’t do it lightly. Know what you’re getting yourself into.
It’s sad that these things even have to be said. They’re all common sense, at least to reasonable people. Anyone who doesn’t follow or understand these basic concepts are not safe to be involved with in *ANY* kind of relationship.
